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\u2018Til New York Doth Come to San Francisco<\/b><\/p>\n
Maybe it\u2019s just my imagination, but it seems like there\u2019s been quite an infusion of New York people and energy into the San Francisco sexual scene of late.\u00a0 First Screw<\/em> magazine writer David Aaron Clark switched coasts, settled into the Mission, and became the fourth columnist in the Spectator<\/em> weekly rotation — along with myself, Carol Queen, and Richard Pacheco.\u00a0 If you\u2019ve missed David\u2019s first three Spectator<\/em> columns, you should start paying better attention.\u00a0 His particular wit, intelligence, and literate perspective on things outrageous is a welcome addition to everyone\u2019s favorite sex weekly.<\/p>\n I had the pleasure of sitting in while David was interviewed by Tuppy Owens, publisher of the annual Sex Maniac\u2019s Diary<\/em>.\u00a0 Tuppy was\u00a0 in from London as part of her cross-country tour, gathering material for a book on the sex art revival of the 90s, and listening to her and David talk gave me an opportunity to hear his thoughts on all sorts of things.\u00a0 The comment that stands out most clearly in my mind had to do with the ways various chroniclers report on the s\/m scene.\u00a0 David was saying that he hates the way people outside the scene write about it because, as misunderstanding outsiders, they always get it wrong, which is obvious enough.\u00a0 But he also was annoyed with people inside the scene because they tend to take it all so very seriously.\u00a0 “I mean if you\u2019re going to put on a leather hood, cinch your waist down to 16″ and have somebody whip you, you\u2019d better have a sense of humor about what you\u2019re doing or you\u2019re going to begin to confirm the stereotype outsiders have of how strange people in the scene are supposed to be.”\u00a0 In other words, David has some sense of perspective….<\/p>\n David is a dedicated novelist (three s\/m-oriented novels in print) who upgraded Screw\u2019<\/em>s coverage of the New York dungeon scene by actually visiting the various s\/m houses and reporting on them truthfully and respectfully.\u00a0 It\u2019s good to have David\u2019s no-bullshit, bottom-line New York eye commenting on local people and happenings, and comparing here with there.\u00a0 What was it he said in his introductory Spectator<\/em> column?\u00a0 “When people here say, \u2018Have a nice day,\u2019 they really mean, \u2018Fuck you.\u2019\u00a0 In New York, it\u2019s the opposite.”\u00a0 How often that\u2019s true!<\/p>\n Of course, New Yorkers get great mileage out of making fun of San Francisco, and San Franciscans do the same about New York.\u00a0 It keeps the talk shows and the stand-up comedians stocked with material.\u00a0 As a repatriated New Yorker, still affectionate toward his roots, I enjoy the taunting in both directions.\u00a0 During the height of the Cold War, I felt this way about the Americans and the Russians, too.\u00a0 They were each very skilled at pointing out the foibles of the other, and terrible about having any perspective on what was going on at home. Maybe you\u2019ve got to be one step outside an experience to have enough perspective to see what\u2019s really going on.<\/p>\n Another significant transplanted New Yorker come to town recently is photographer Eric Kroll, who just staged a dramatic book signing for his popular book of photographs, Fetish Girls<\/em>, at Good Vibrations.\u00a0 Well, it wasn\u2019t exactly a book signing; it was more of an installation — a New York style event.\u00a0 Kroll had several glamorous women on hand for the occasion, dressed in fetching fetish gear that ranged from a full-body rubber catsuit to long dresses with cinched waists and ankles that had the women in them shuffling in the most minuscule of steps — all the while a tv overhead played various of his fetish videos.\u00a0 Why settle for words when you can have theater?<\/p>\n I particularly enjoyed the model who was physically installed into a four-shelved white bookcase, copies of Kroll\u2019s book tucked around and between her legs.\u00a0 Also the woman sitting cross-legged in a rubber catsuit, with a condomed strap-on, and 12″ pink heels (no, she couldn\u2019t walk in them) that perfectly matched her pink hair — maintaining a look of perfectly disdainful distance for the entire evening.<\/p>\n It was so very unlike Good Vibrations, this emphasis on glamour and image, and more than a little disorienting — not to say discomfiting — to many who were there.\u00a0 I wondered if the staff of Good Vibrations was uncomfortable with Kroll\u2019s emphasis on traditional beauty and glamour.\u00a0 “Not at all,” he says.\u00a0 “They totally understood what was going on and were totally open to it.\u00a0 They helped decorate the people.\u00a0 I bought them flowers the next day.”<\/p>\n I asked Eric how he felt about using traditional notions of women in his installation, and in his photography.\u00a0 “I don\u2019t distinguish the girlie stuff from my art,” he replied.\u00a0 “Getting the juices going is as valid and highly evolved a purpose as trying to stimulate some abstract thought somewhere.\u00a0 If your dick or your twat is stirred, then I\u2019ve done it.\u00a0 Hopefully you\u2019re laughing at the same time about the irony of the human condition and the sexual matter.”<\/p>\n Whatever you may think of the traditional icons of glamour, there\u2019s definitely something to be said for the inventive and imaginative mind.\u00a0 I for one enjoyed the sense of theatrical transformation that was at the heart of the evening — something that I think of as very much a New York perspective.\u00a0 I don\u2019t believe Eric ever got around to anything as linear as talking about his book, or even to signing the copies that people bought that night.<\/p>\n Eric, by the way, is very much set up here in town, where he is marketing not only his book, but also his videos, his new CD-ROM, his fetish gear, and his massive collection of fetish photos.\u00a0 He has over 5000 of his own prints, as well as prints by Bunny Yeager (of Bettie Page), Peter Basch, Phillip O. Stearns, and many others.\u00a0 If you\u2019re into 50\u2019s-style cheesecake, he\u2019s definitely the person to see.<\/p>\n “I\u2019m trying to create a salon of glamour and sexuality that\u2019s not in the Tenderloin somewhere, a place that\u2019s well-lit, that you can go to in the daytime.\u00a0 I\u2019m a fetish photographer who is obsessed with women in foundation garments.\u00a0 I search the vintage stores for girdles, corsets, full fashion stockings.\u00a0 I hound the contemporary makers of fetish wear for extreme high heels and rubber wear.\u00a0 I photograph women smoking, bathing while in underwear, and in public and in rubber.\u00a0 My videos reflect the same obsessions.\u00a0 For the past several years, I\u2019ve kept a video camera rolling during my photo shoots.\u00a0 The model forgets.\u00a0 I forget.\u00a0 But the camera keeps rolling, a voyeur\u2019s wet dream.”<\/p>\n People interested in Eric\u2019s catalogues should contact Eric Kroll Photographs Ltd. at P.O. Box 642176, San Francisco, CA 94164; (415) 931-3203.\u00a0 You can also visit his studio and go through his photos and fetishwear in person, but only for a $100 minimum purchase.<\/p>\n * * * * *<\/p>\n S\/M Parlors in the Mainstream<\/b><\/p>\n I\u2019ve written a number of times about how quickly s\/m is being adopted by mainstream culture, but even I was surprised to see the elaborate spread that the San Francisco Examiner<\/em> gave to professional s\/m dungeons on the front page of its Lifestyle section, July 31.\u00a0 The article by Examiner<\/em> staff writer Julian Guthrie was boldly entitled “Slaves to the Business” and featured a full-page photo of Fantasy Makers\u2019s Mistress Natasha that was almost identical to the cover photo on the July 7th issue of Spectator (except that the Examiner<\/em> photo was somewhat more revealing).\u00a0 Surprisingly, it gave quite a respectful perspective on the local dungeon scene, with repeated emphasis on safety, consensuality, mutual respect, and good clean fun.<\/p>\n Therapist and Spectator<\/em> contributing writer Bill Henkin was quoted extensively, as were other intelligent commentators like Jay Wiseman (“the number of people in the Bay area who are doing some form of SM play is enormous”) and Isadora Alman (“it\u2019s the ultimate in safe sex”). Everybody quoted was essentially s\/m-friendly, from therapists to clients to mistresses.\u00a0 The general impression you got from the piece was that s\/m was an interesting, exotic, popular new form of sex play, and that all sorts of perfectly regular people visited and worked in s\/m dungeons, playing out sexual fantasies that were presented more as imaginative than weird.\u00a0 Cross-dressing, foot worship, humiliation, restraint, spanking, fisting, cutting, and being beaten at chess all were mentioned.\u00a0 Even the SFPD and San Francisco\u2019s chief medical examiner, Dr. Boyd Stephens, were presented as being favorably disposed to the kinds of non-sexual s\/m play that is so widely available from local professionals.\u00a0 Inspector Michael Curran of the SFPD vice squad went so far as to put down closed-minded people in more conservative climes by noting with obvious pride that “what is tolerated in San Francisco will not be tolerated in Dump Truck, Iowa,” concluding with libertarian abandon that “it\u2019s between consenting adults….\u00a0 Different strokes for different folks.”<\/p>\n Seems like we\u2019re moving beyond simple acceptance of s\/m almost to the point of proclaiming a kind of s\/m-chic.\u00a0 Something along the lines of what happened when Victoria\u2019s Secret took wearing sexy lingerie uptown.\u00a0 Can it be that s\/m is moving from the realm of slimy perversion into being most definitely hip and fashionable, the kind of thing that everybody who\u2019s anybody really has to experiment with at some point in their lives?\u00a0 Next thing you know, Miss Manners will be giving advice on whether it\u2019s rude to cancel an appointment with your mistress at the last minute, or whether referring a friend to your dungeon of choice is appropriate conversation for the dinner table or something that should be reserved for more privacy later in the evening.<\/p>\n As the rest of the country slides toward the Preservation of Decency, what the Examiner<\/em> dubs “the sexually adventurous Bay Area, home to professional dungeons and dominatrixes, private parties and erotic boutiques” once again moves to the beat of a different drummer.<\/p>\n * * * * *<\/p>\n Defending the Internet<\/b><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Come mothers and fathers throughout the land<\/p>\n And don\u2019t criticize what you can\u2019t understand<\/p>\n Your sons and your daughters are beyond your command<\/p>\n Your old road is rapidly agin\u2019.<\/p>\n Please get out of the new one if you can\u2019t lend your hand<\/p>\n For the times they are a-changin\u2019.<\/p>\n — Bob Dylan, 1963<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The people in places like Dump Truck, Iowa may not have access to the many sexual resources of Baghdad by the Bay.\u00a0 But thanks, first, to Madonna and now, more significantly, to the Internet and popular online services like America Online, CompuServe, and Prodigy, they are not nearly as isolated in their access to sexual material and thinking as they used to be.\u00a0 As they used to be not very long ago at all.\u00a0 Call it cultural imperialism, but the sexual multiplicity of “adventurous” cities is finding its way into the American heartland as inevitably as running water, electricity, telephones, television, and home computers.\u00a0 Predictably, the world of home computers has become the latest venue of the never-ending battle between truth, justice, and the American Way.<\/p>\n The current conflict between the sexually adventurous and the sexually protective is focused on the Telecommunications Competition and\u00a0 Deregulation Act of 1995, an omnibus piece of Congressional legislation primarily concerned with the economic than the sexual issues associated with telecommunications.\u00a0 For the most part, this is legislation governing how tv networks, phone companies, and other electronic providers will divide the immense profits to be made from providing various forms of telecommunications to intrigued and insatiable Americans like you and me.\u00a0 It\u2019s the first major re-write of this legislation in 60 years, and a lot has changed about telecommunications since the 1930\u2019s.\u00a0 However, as presidential election time comes rolling around, and as Bob Dole jockeys for position with Phil Gramm for the hearts and minds of the Christian Right, the issue of telecommunications regulation provides an exquisite opportunity for antisexual crusaders to whip sexual fear into a new level of panic.<\/p>\n I wrote about these issues in this column three months ago, when the first sexually prohibitionist legislation relating to the Internet, the so-called Communications Decency Act, was still before the Judiciary Committee of the Senate.\u00a0 This broad-brush legislation, designed to prohibit the transmission of all “indecent, lewd, lascivious, filthy, or obscene” material on the net, was added to the Senate\u2019s Telecommunications Reform Bill by an overwhelming vote of 84-16, despite some effective counter-lobbying efforts by Internet free speech advocates such as\u00a0 Voters Telecommunications Watch and the Center for Democracy and Technology.\u00a0 California Senators Dianne Feinstein and Barbara Boxer both voted for CDA.<\/p>\n The fear network appeared to be in full swing.\u00a0 Newspapers were suddenly full of stories of teenagers supposedly lured into sexual liaisons by adults in cyberspace chatrooms.\u00a0 No child, no computer, was safe.\u00a0 The juggernaut moved from the Senate to the House of Representatives, and then the most unexpected of things happened:\u00a0 House Speaker Newt Gingrich — not your favorite civil libertarian — came out in vocal opposition to the bill, labeling it overbroad and censorious.\u00a0 Everyone on the Right, Left, and Center was nothing less than shocked.\u00a0 What was the Good Speaker saying?\u00a0 One columnist in Philadelphia, Howard Altman, went so far as to suggest that the Newt must himself be some sort of cyberslut.<\/p>\n “I am closing my eyes,” Altman fantasized.\u00a0 “I am seeing a vision of Newt Gingrich sitting at his desk in the Capitol Building.\u00a0 It is late at night.\u00a0 He is all alone.\u00a0 He is having mad, passionate sex.\u00a0 Not with himself.\u00a0 With someone else at a computer terminal, who calls herself Wicked Wanda and is entwined with Newt, thanks to the wonders of cyberspace….\u00a0 I can think of few reasons why Gingrich would risk the wrath of the Right by opposing the Decency Act except this one.”<\/p>\n I like this vision.\u00a0 Gingrich is just the sort of two-faced opportunist to have a cyberskeleton in his closet, and enough of a modernist to be into computers.\u00a0 My only problem is that it\u2019s hard to imagine where he would find the time for online sex, but if other big shot pols have time for lurid affairs, there\u2019s no reason why Newt couldn\u2019t spend a few hours here and there unwinding to a bright screen in a darkened room.<\/p>\n Whatever the explanation, after Gingrich\u2019s unabashed condemnation, opposition in the House to CDA\u2019s restrictions grew to such an extent that on August 4th the House attached the progressive Cox-Wyden Internet Freedom and Family Empowerment Act to the Telecommunications Bill by the overwhelming margin of 420-4.<\/p>\n The Cox-Wyden bill — named for Senators Chris Cox (R-California) and Ron Wyden (D-Oregon), not for its sexual expansiveness — is “something like the anti-Communications Decency Act,” according to Voter Telecommunications Watch. “Its ideals promote smaller \u2018off your back\u2019 government, less business regulation, stronger parental control, and free speech.”\u00a0 Congressmen Cox and Wyden say that the intent of their bill is to “clean up the Internet while preserving the efficiency and open access of the worldwide computer network.”\u00a0 Acknowledging that there is a real potential problem with children gaining access to inappropriate sexual material through the net, Cox-Wyden proposes using parental control blocking mechanisms rather than new obscenity law to deal with the problem.<\/p>\n Cox-Wyden prohibits the Federal Communications Commission from regulating online speech.\u00a0 It absolves online service providers and operators of online bulletin boards from liability regarding material that passes through their networks, as long as these providers make good faith efforts to screen content (which is technically all but impossible) or, more significantly, provide parents with screening software to limit use of these services by children.<\/p>\n Aside from Newt Gingrich\u2019s surprise support, the major turnaround between Senate and House considerations of Internet censorship has been the mobilization of an effective petitioning campaign by the net itself.\u00a0 For the first time since the Republicans took over mass market funding appeals in the 80s, the technological advantage is in the hands of the progressives.\u00a0 VTW notes in its latest BillWatch<\/em> news update that it “released an alert asking the net to call their Representatives about supporting parental control as the best method of monitoring children’s access to material on the Internet.\u00a0 You responded in spades.\u00a0 We’re still\u00a0 digging out of the email….\u00a0 420 Reps went on record saying they had thought about the issue and supported a method of monitoring children’s access to the net without endangering free speech.\u00a0 Many of them did so because you called and told them that’s what you wanted….\u00a0 Every one of you that called, wrote, faxed, or drove to DC to speak to your rep should be very proud of yourself.\u00a0 You have made an impact and affected the way that politicians think about this issue.\u00a0 Democracy does behave as designed sometimes, and we hope your enthusiasm about this motivates you to vote in the next election.”<\/p>\n Remember that when Senators and Congressmen vote about regulating the Internet, the great majority of them have only the most shadowy of notions about what the Internet is, who uses it, how it works, and what\u2019s available on it.\u00a0 They might as well be voting on the best of way of limiting the spread of Ebola virus.\u00a0 When Senator Exon produced an overwhelming volume of graphic offensive images downloaded from the net and effectively shocked the other Senators into a sense of moral panic, no one understood the difference between material available for purchase from porn marketeers and the kind of material that anybody’s son or daughter might come across accidentally while netsurfing, or be sent by a potential predator or molester.\u00a0 When the Supreme Court eventually addresses this issue as it must, it will be an even more aged and computer-illiterate club evaluating a medium that is basically the turf of young people.<\/p>\n This is one of the issues that the protective adults of America seem to find the most frightening about the Internet:\u00a0 that their children understand and move freely in a world they can barely comprehend, let alone control.\u00a0 First it was rock \u2018n\u2019 roll; now it\u2019s the Internet.\u00a0 In testimony before the Senate Judiciary Committee — dubbed “Cyberporn:\u00a0 The Scope of the Problem, the State of the Technology, and the Need for Congressional Action” — this issue of the children being way more savvy than the parents was raised again and again.\u00a0 “Children today have grown up with the computer, and I can safely say they are more computer literate than the majority of their parents,” worries one mother of two from Maryland.\u00a0 “Children are usually more adept than adults at operating computers,” echoes Dee Jepsen, Executive Director of the anti-cyperporn group called “Enough is Enough.”<\/p>\n Given the culture gap between most older people and a youth-oriented technology and marketplace that is accelerating every week, it is not surprising that there is much fear and ignorance available to be exploited by the Radical Right.\u00a0 What VTW and other Internet free speech advocates are trying to accomplish, apparently with real success, is to offer information to lawmakers so that they can begin to separate genuine concerns from inflated paranoias.<\/p>\n “HR1978 [Cox-Wyden] had been available and well-discussed for weeks.\u00a0 A free demonstration of the \u2018parental control\u2019 software discussed in HR1978 was done in mid-July for Congress by members of the Interactive Working Group.\u00a0 Every effort was made by sponsors Cox and Wyden to ensure that supporting votes were well-educated votes on this issue.”\u00a0 The net defenders seem to be working under Martin Luther King\u2019s praiseworthy dictum, “the truth will make you free.”\u00a0 for once, reason and clarity triumphed over ignorance and fear.<\/p>\n Despite the happy turn of events, however, the cyberporn issue is far from settled.\u00a0 First of all the House bill, in addition to Cox-Wyden, includes directly contradictory language (introduced at the last minute without debate, according to VTW) that would censor the net after all, along the lines of Robert Dole\u2019s pending Protection of Children from Computer Pornography Act.\u00a0 It remains to be seen whether the Cox-Wyden provisions, the Dole language, or the Draconian Communications Decency Act will come out of the House-Senate conference on the telecommunications bill.\u00a0 (VTW says it is “optimistic about our odds in this process.”)\u00a0 Furthermore, President Clinton is threatening to veto the entire bill in any case, because he considers it overly lenient with regard to the regulation of telecommunications monopolies.<\/p>\n For people who would like to keep up to date on these issues, there are a number of online resources available.\u00a0 To get on the distribution list for BillWatch<\/em>, send email to listproc@vtw.org with “subscribe vtw-announce Firstname Lastname” in the subject line.\u00a0 To receive the latest version of BillWatch<\/em>, email vtw@vtw.org with “send billwatch” in the subject line.\u00a0 And of course you can always e-mail me, eronat@aol.com.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n August 25, 1995<\/p>\n Copyright \u00a9 1995 David Steinberg<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" <\/p>\n \u2018Til New York Doth Come to San Francisco<\/p>\n Maybe it\u2019s just my imagination, but it seems like there\u2019s been quite an infusion of New York people and energy into the San Francisco sexual scene of late. 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